9 Things I Learned in 2009
December 31, 2009 Leave a comment
Ah, another year is about to commence. Just as one of my favorite quotes read, “Every ending is a new beginning.” I stopped doing New Years’ resolutions a long time ago. Those resolutions seem to be nothing more than vows you’re bound to break. Instead, I take a moment to reflect and then I move the heck on. I read once that Madonna hates to reminisce and dwell on the past. That’s why she’s constantly reinventing herself and why each of her albums seems to be something completely new and different. I like that mindset and mentality. Yet, I also understand the importance of learning from the past so that you won’t make the same mistakes or won’t forget the good lessons learned. So, here’s a list of things I’ve learned in 2009. Just as the theme song goes for one of my favorite shows, “You take the good, you take the bad, you mix ’em up and then you have the facts of life.” Here are some facts of my life:
1. Don’t expect to get the praise and admiration you want (whether it’s well earned or just selfishly wanted) until you’re dead. Farrah Fawcett, Michael Jackson and Brittany Murphy learned that lesson the hard way.
2. You need to sit your behind down and just rest and veg out sometimes.
3. If you’ve earned time off at work, TAKE IT. Saying, “I’ll just save my days for Christmas or something” will usually mean you’re stuck manning the office by yourself or working on horrid days like Christmas Eve or New Year’s Eve.
4. Disconnect for your health. The easier it is for people to connect to you or find you, whether it be through E-mail, telephone or even simply knowing where you live, the unhappier you’ll probably be because they’ll bug the Dickens out of you.
5. Always make the time to workout or exercise. You can easily do a total-body workout in 20 minutes pretty much anywhere without having to go to a gym. Do pushups, squats, lunges, jump rope for 10 minutes … just do something. How many hours do you watch TV, listen to music or play with your iPhone or some other device? Enough said, you can spare 20 minutes a day (if not more).
6. It’s sometimes pretty awesome to be single. Marriage tends to make you pretty lame (ahem, Mariah Carey and her love ode to Nick Cannon, ‘Memoirs of an Imperfect Angel’ that tanked?) and monogamy is a bit overrated (Tiger Woods), though it’s a swell idea in theory.
7. Sometimes, the most satisfying way to spend money is to save it for a rainy day. The economy tanked but it taught me how to save and make every penny count. Learning the difference between a need and want was key. Plus, learning that it’s okay to indulge every now and then, within reason, after paying the bills, is the path to financial satisfaction. My biggest 2009 accomplishment in ’09? I paid off a credit card. No more credit cards for me! What did you do?
8. Be selfish and do what you want to do. Yeah, being considerate of others and their feelings is okay but what’s awesome is being totally aware of your own needs, desires and wants. Even if you’re just 20, you should have a plan or path you’re working on. Create a bucket list. It’s morbid, yes, but marking off things you’ve wanted to accomplish will be a great feeling.
9. Be aware and act. Whether it be a cause, concern or personal matter, being aware is something few people tend to be. Research and keep up with an interest of yours; a charity, your health, your needs and wants … and then act on what you’ve found out. Give to a charity, get healthy and fit, invest in your needs and wants.
So, what have YOU learned from your life in 2009?
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